The Internet Told Her to Abort Her Baby Because of Turner Syndrome: Bad Medical Advice.
- Dr. Waggel, MD, MS, PMH-C
- 5 days ago
- 4 min read
Updated: 4 days ago
The Internet Told Her to Abort Her Baby Because of Turner Syndrome: Where are the consequences for bad medical advice online for non-doctors?
Two of my recent teaching topics with medical students have been: people taking medical advice from social media and the rise of “wild births,” where babies receive no medical care whatsoever. Then I opened one of my Facebook moms' groups and saw a pregnant woman post that her baby’s genetic screening came back positive for Turner syndrome. Immediately, strangers in the comments started telling her to abort. Not physicians. Not genetic counselors. Not maternal-fetal medicine specialists. Random people on the internet.
What always fascinates me is that when I comment online, I always say “this is not medical advice.” Meanwhile, people with absolutely no medical training give medical advice all day long and, in this case, casually tell a stranger to terminate their pregnancy with zero accountability whatsoever. Where are the consequences for bad medical advice online for non-doctors? Telling a terrified pregnant woman, “Your baby will have a horrible life, abort now,” is medical advice. And potentially devastating medical advice.
What I Explained to the Group (of course, with the disclaimer that this is not medical advice)
In the early 2000s, many schools and science classes performed what were called Barr body studies or sex chromatin studies. Students would swab cells from the inside of their cheeks, stain them, and look under the microscope for “Barr bodies,” which are inactivated X chromosomes. These labs became common because they were cheap, visual, and easy to teach in genetics courses and, in my opinion, a fun way to learn science. Even modern lab manuals and student reports still describe the cheek-swab Barr body exercise. Males would have zero Barr bodies and females would have one. But apparently, that was not always the case.
Sometimes students unexpectedly discovered chromosomal differences. For example, if a female took this test in class and showed zero Barr bodies, it could indicate Turner syndrome. This would suggest that people can live with Turner syndrome and never even realize it. Many people with Turner syndrome live long, functional lives and may not even be diagnosed until adolescence or adulthood, especially in mosaic cases where symptoms are subtle. Is that a disease so severe that it is worth terminating a pregnancy over? Ultimately, it is for the parents to decide, but hopefully not based on suggestions from social media. Side note: similar to finding out one has Turner syndrome, males in their science class with one Barr body sometimes discovered they had Klinefelter syndrome.
The Internet’s Version of Turner Syndrome Is Often Completely Detached from Reality
When people online hear the words “chromosomal abnormality,” many immediately picture catastrophic suffering or incompatibility with life. Reality is much more nuanced. Yes, some pregnancies affected by Turner syndrome can involve serious medical complications. Some fetuses develop conditions such as hydrops fetalis, major cardiac abnormalities, or cystic hygromas. Some pregnancies miscarry naturally. But that is not the entire picture.
Many girls and women with Turner syndrome attend school, have careers, live independently, form relationships, and have meaningful, happy lives. Some are not diagnosed until infertility evaluations or workups for short stature later in life. The condition exists on a spectrum, especially with mosaic Turner syndrome (when only some cells are missing the X chromosome). That nuance completely disappears online.
Social Media Has Created a Culture of Unlicensed Medical Counseling
What disturbed me most was not that people discussed Turner syndrome. It was the certainty. Complete strangers confidently telling a pregnant woman: “I would abort.” Or “You should terminate.” Or “Don’t let the child suffer.”
Imagine making a permanent, irreversible decision because anonymous people online scared you. This is exactly why physicians, genetic counselors, and maternal-fetal medicine specialists exist. A prenatal screening result is not a TikTok debate topic. It requires confirmatory testing, individualized counseling, discussion of prognosis variability, and actual medical expertise.
Also, random people on the internet cannot possibly know what else is going on. It is perhaps possible that a licensed medical professional would propose termination in a Turner Syndrome case, especially if there are other high-risk issues or serious and life-threatening medical concerns. You can't get a full diagnostic picture from a social media post or comment.
I also think that hearing what could be perceived as devastating news, especially if you do not even know what the news means, blocks your ability to take in information. Therefore, when you get hit with this result at your doctor’s office and the doctor starts explaining it to you, you might not fully understand. Later, once you have had time to process, you have questions, but the opportunity to ask the doctor has passed. This is when people take to social media.
This, coupled with the fact that some doctors (especially those faced with constraints set by insurance companies), unfortunately only have a few minutes to explain these very difficult concepts. It can be difficult to get back in with that doctor to continue the conversation. People want to have more than a 5-minute conversation about it, so again, talking about it on social media for hours fills that void.
A Necessary Disclaimer (Because I always have one)
If you previously had an abortion after a diagnosis of Turner syndrome, this post is not intended to shame you or make you feel guilty. People make deeply personal decisions for complicated reasons. My point is something much simpler: do not make irreversible medical decisions because strangers on the internet told you to. Especially strangers who know less about genetics than the average high schooler who had a Barr body lab.
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This is such an amazing blog Dr. Waggel. The example you gave about the person facing numerous online comments telling her to abort her baby due to Turner Syndrome was really eye opening because it shows how the general public can make a difficult life decision seem very simple by saying "abort the baby". These comments might be the last suggestion a woman might face before making a decision to keep their baby. Therefore, relying on online comments by unknown people can be detrimental to say the least. A lot of people with Turner Syndrome can live a healthy life for a long period of their lives, and choosing to end their life by being influenced through online information should…
Thank you for sharing this, Dr. Waggel. I think this highlights a really concerning issue with how easily medical advice spreads online, especially in situations where people are scared and looking for answers quickly. What stood out to me most was how confidently strangers were telling someone to terminate a pregnancy based only on a screening result without understanding the full clinical picture or even the difference between screening and diagnosis. Turner syndrome is clearly much more nuanced than the internet often makes it seem, especially considering the variability in severity and the fact that many individuals live full and meaningful lives.
I also thought your point about social media filling the gap after short doctor appointments was really important.…
This article really highlights how easily complex genetic information can be misunderstood once it moves online, especially in situations like prenatal screening where emotions are already running high. Turner syndrome in particular has a wide spectrum of outcomes, but social media discussions often focus only on the most extreme possibilities, which can be really misleading for expectant parents. It also shows how important proper counseling and follow-up testing are, since screening results alone don’t give a complete or definitive picture. This is a strong reminder that medical decisions should be guided by specialists rather than online opinions, especially in high-stakes situations like pregnancy.
It's eye opening how many people consider their online social media groups as friends and are willing to share personal information and ask medical advice. These people know nothing about you, your situation, your beliefs, but are very willing to give you medical advice without understanding the full context. This is dangerous, especially when you have someone who's already scared. Seek out proper medical advice from a professional and consultation from people who know and love you.
I really enjoyed reading this article! It sheds light on several media-safety concepts and the dangers of online diagnosis, especially how the internet often skips over crucial nuances. The article provided a strong example of how generalized online advice can be, Turner's Syndrome. There are so many different factors to consider with this disease, but the internet kept telling this mother to abort even if they have no medical background. It's interesting that actual medical professors make sure to tell their audience that this is not medical advice, but people with no medical advice don't. It contributes to the spread of medical information online, and it's really important to talk about this.